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Wednesday, July 18, 2007

Giving cancer The Bird



So, Jim from Idaho sent this to me last week. I remember seeing it before, but had forgotten all about it. It's classic and genius. Thanks, Jim!

Metaphorically speaking, I think that the jet and the SUV were the cancer and the little old lady in the car was my Dad, right up to the credits.

I remember reading a quote a while ago and I can't remember it verbatim, or who even said it in the first place. But, it said something about how there's plenty of people who want to ride along in the limo with you, but it's the ones who will gladly sit beside you on the bus that you want with you.

I suppose I figure that the recent altercation with my Father's health was the bus ride and I'm honored that so many of you chose to sit beside me.

My Father was diagnosed with stage 1 bladder cancer. I refuse to capitalize any of those letters. They don't deserve the distinction.

We're EXTREMELY lucky that it's stage 1. His bladder was scraped and they removed a tumor. The treatment now consists of BCG, which is an immunotherapy.

This will not kill him. As I've stated below, it will hopefully be all the booze and sex that will finally do him in, in another 80 years.

I often think of how all of life is interconnected on some massive web of creation. That there really isn't any "us and them". I believe that it's all "us". I just feel very fortunate to have stumbled on many of you who reminded me of it. You reminded me that I'm not sitting out here on this web by myself. That somewhere, sometime, you were thinking of me and my Dad, and my family.

I could feel it. And it felt unbelievable. Truly, it did.

So, thank you.

I hope that I can do the same.

I hope that I can remind you that we're all in it together.

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24 Comments:

Blogger Nancy said...

Hurray for the outcome to be good news!

Indeed, sounds like your dad flipped the C right off.

*cheers* a drink to your dad and his health.

10:57 AM  
Blogger furiousBall said...

AWESOME! Great news my friend.

11:09 AM  
Blogger Major Bedhead said...

That's excellent news. I'm very happy that the outcome is so positive.



furiousball's little icon fella there is kind of freaking me out....

11:15 AM  
Blogger flutter said...

I would sit on any bus you planted your ass in, friend. I say a little prayer for your Dad everyday.

11:24 AM  
Blogger Marmite Breath said...

It's so scary how many people have a family member with cancer. It's insane and insidious and we're going to kick its ass, right?

11:54 AM  
Anonymous Chaos control said...

This is fabulous news!! I'll drink to it!!

11:57 AM  
Blogger mcewen said...

You're right, we are all in it together, all sorts from all places.

I think we all 'project' a bit on the web, but something of a person's true character still twinkles through.

That's why there's those little security codes for comments, to confirm our 'common' humanity. [translation = People not spammers!]

Best wishes to you and yours

12:19 PM  
Blogger Mrs. Incredible said...

I love when I see you've posted something. It's like getting a little treat in the mailbox when you're a kid. "A letter from Kevin! Ooooh boy! I love Kevin!"

12:38 PM  
Blogger Jess Riley said...

What a relief! I'm so happy to hear it's going to be the booze and sex.

Hugs and cheers to you, my dear--this calls for celebration! :)

1:36 PM  
Blogger mamatulip said...

You and your dad are still in my thoughts. Keep us posted, please.

5:06 PM  
Blogger canape said...

Cancer deserves to have its hairy ass kicked. I'm sorry your dad has to be another soul to kick it, but I'm glad that he has the strength to do so. And the strength for sex and booze afterwards. He rocks.

7:02 PM  
Blogger SUEB0B said...

Muchas smooches.

9:48 PM  
Blogger carrie said...

Thus is this life, we ARE all in it together!

Good to hear that your awesome dad will be around for a long, long time!

Carrie

1:16 AM  
Blogger Peter Pan said...

Kitten,
I'll happily invest in a bus pass as long as I get to have you around to chat to.
So pleased this story has a happy ending, I cant begin to tell you.
Be good (well, I say good .....)
x

2:08 AM  
Blogger Pendullum said...

Heck, I would ride a bus, anytime,any place with you my friend...
and I too hope...
'it will hopefully be all the booze and sex that will finally do him in, in another 80 years.'

7:17 AM  
Blogger Grafxgurl said...

i worry about my parents..

so hugs to you.. kevin bwai, *sends her loving vibes forth*

7:45 AM  
Blogger Stephanie said...

SO glad to hear that your dad will be alright. Here's to the next 80 years, and you can tell him that from me.

9:56 AM  
Blogger Redsy said...

Kevin,
So glad to hear ... You are such a loving and devoted son. You make this mommy cry.

:)
Rachael

10:22 AM  
Anonymous drunkenspaniel said...

Hello my dear. I dropped by to say that I had a dream about you. Its was very weird. You collected my dry-cleaning for me and we bumped into my mum. Weird weird weird.

10:28 AM  
Blogger Mrs. Chicky said...

That's wonderful news! Stage 1 cancer can be beaten and it will be beaten in this case. Good vibes for your dad, Kevin.

11:40 AM  
Blogger Mel said...

(((Kevin)))

2:50 PM  
Blogger Terri@SteelMagnolia said...

You're not alone... that's for sure!!

So happy about the stage 1 news...
what a relief...

Hugs buddy!

9:28 PM  
Blogger Open Grove Claudia said...

I thought that sex and booze where the only known co-factors for bladder cancer. Just me... ;)

I'm delighted about your dad.

8:47 AM  

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