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Tuesday, June 12, 2007

Buckled Knees

When friends or family come to our home, Will and I would like them to feel like they're in a sanctuary away from the rest of the world. We want them to feel inspired by the art on the walls, peaceful by the trickling fountains on the patio, and invigorated and intrigued by the decor of our home. We want them to feel loved and welcome.

We want them to feel joy and serenity when they're here. We want them to eat and drink plenty, and hopefully, while they're drunk on the cheap wine that we're pouring, they have no idea that we're robbing them of their things while they're not looking. Or possibly slipping them a roofie and coping a feel when they're sleeping.

I want this website to be the same way. (Not the robbing part, I can't very well rummage through your wallet or purse through the computer...well...I guess I could hack into your personal files, but seeing how I don't even care enough to balance my own checkbook, I think that you're safe for a while. And I can't very well reach through the screen and touch your danger zones...Although, if you're interested, we probably could hook up some kind of webcam action...humm...)

Anyway, I was saying...that when people come to my website, I'd like it to be an extension of our home, a sanctuary from the rest of the world, where you can laugh and hopefully feel inspired in some way. Where you feel welcome, drugged and taken advantage of.

However, in order for me to appreciate what inspires me and for what I feel deep gratitude for in my life, that would take perspective. And at the opposite end of the spectrum of what brings me joy and serenity is simply horrifying. And what's worse, is when I realize, fully realize, that the "simply horrifying" part is everyday life for others.

I've been haunted since Sunday morning by this image that Whit over at Honea Express posted on Saturday. If you'd like to read his comment and follow the link to the story of where and how this image took place, you can find it here.



Whit wrote: "Makes me want to cry."

Me too, Whit.

So, in reverence of the images that are NOT in the news as much as they should be, while this administration touts that it's out of "respect". Respect my ass, we all know that it's out of manipulation.

Rather than me posting anything that had to do with the current headlines:

*Lessons for Bad Girls:
What can Lindsay Lohan, Paris Hilton and Britney Spears learn from the good girls of Hollywood?

*Jr. Makes Driving Decision.
Dale Earnhardt, Jr. has decided where he will drive next season.

*Give Dad more than socks.
There's a huge spending disparity between Father's Day and Mother's Day gifts.


(I can't BELIEVE those are the headlines.)

I wanted to post something that keeps me awake out of the dangerous slumber of complacency of which much of our population still sleeps.



And this reminds me that I have nothing to complain about.

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34 Comments:

Blogger canape said...

Moving.

It's easy to sit here and disagree with Bush and all of his foreign policy.

It's difficult to not simultaneously be proud of our fellow Americans in service.

I will be thinking of this as I attend a family funeral at Arlington on Thursday.

Thanks for posting it.

8:00 PM  
Blogger kim said...

Thanks Kevin, thanks for being you :) *big hugs*

8:09 PM  
Blogger Kevin Charnas said...

Canape - I am so, so, so sorry...

You of all people didn't need to see the video.

I'm a veteran myself. And my former unit has served over there a few times and will be going back for another 6 months. I just want people to remember what is going on... and it's not about Paris Hilton.

My deepest sympathy and respect...
Sincerely,
Kevin

Kim - thanks for saying so...and right back at you. :)

8:18 PM  
Blogger Nancy said...

Simply beautiful ... we can disagree with war, but we must support our troops.

FYI www(dot)anysoldier(dot)com is a wonderful site that explains what can be sent, a list of soldiers names (some don't get ANY mail or packages) ... and "how to send" direction.

I recently sent a box of items to a soldier in Iraq. The US post office has boxes that are good size, like a robe box, that you can fill, no matter what weight, and send it to a soldier for $8.65.

The need and want BEANIE BABIES! A must have when walking into new areas to offer to the terrified kids ... a peace offering that seems to work. AA Batteries for their GPS systems, never can have enough. Wet wipes, moisturizers, chap stick, toiletries, many things that are needed. Check out the site and send to even just one soldier ... it makes a difference.

Sorry Kevin ... I get carried away.

:: stepping down from my soapbox ::

9:16 PM  
Blogger Peter Pan said...

Bang on the money, as always, Mr C.

And dont wait for me to fall asleep to cop a feel .. just you go for it while I am awake and can enjoy it.

3:24 AM  
Blogger Janet a.k.a. "Wonder Mom" said...

Yeah. I can't go there...Crying. too hard.

5:34 AM  
Blogger Sayre said...

Z-boy watched this with me and asked all kinds of questions I couldn't answer. I guess I'd better get used to that.

5:44 AM  
Blogger nell said...

Thank you for reminding me of presence and immediacy of all the stories I don't hear every day. Excellent post.

6:16 AM  
Blogger furiousBall said...

I'm in tears now, literally. This fucking war is rigoddamndiculous. Look at that child. I'm an amazing father and my children are about to be taken away from me for stupid reasons as well. Hurt is no good for no one, whether they have oil or not. OR some bullshit about fight them over there or over here. Go fuck yourselves.

7:06 AM  
Blogger Steve said...

I think about what we have done to the Iraqi people, and I think about all we have here. As a father, as a human being, I cant help but cry at the cruelties inflicted in the name of george bush's war on terror.

7:23 AM  
Blogger Oh, The Joys said...

The photo makes me hurt. Hurting. Hurt.

8:26 AM  
Blogger mommiebear2 said...

That picture just breaks my heart, I cannot begin to imagine.

8:50 AM  
Blogger Rock the Cradle said...

Heart-breaking and enraging.

And so important to see.

Thank you.

11:14 AM  
Anonymous L.A. Daddy said...

Thanks for sharing. It's so infuriating to me. Not that things seem to be going from bad to worse -- that does hurt -- but what gets me is that there isn't rioting in the streets.

Where's the anger?

Oh, wait... gotta run. There's a Paris update on CNN! Bye!

11:21 AM  
Blogger Kelly said...

Geez Kevin...you charm us with your wit and warmth, and then you remind us. Great post.

11:23 AM  
Anonymous Ravedogg said...

Growing up, I learned about the poor treatment of Vietnam Vets by their fellow Americans... I never understood why people can't seperate government policy makers from soldiers... How can you hate someone you don't know without evidence of their cruelty? That being said, I question everything and will not call someone I do not know a hero because even a rapist or murderer (who's never been caught) can enlist and get a purple heart. In the end, all we can do is live and let live, and respect each other day by day, until an individual does something which warrents our contempt.

...And where are those pics of Kevin fondling LBC Jen's gorgeous rack?

12:48 PM  
Blogger Blog Antagonist said...

Seems like you and I are on similar wavelengths today. So many people hurting all over the world... And our news focuses on a spoiled heiress, a Hallmark driven holiday, and a grown man who races cars for a living. It's almost laughable. Almost.

2:41 PM  
Blogger Terri@SteelMagnolia said...

I had posted this on my blog a month or so ago...
I cry everytime I watch it.

I pray for them every single day.

My husband served in the first Gulf War... he disarmed bombs...
sure is different this time around.

3:44 PM  
Blogger Jess Riley said...

Thank you for the reminder, Kevin. I can't even imagine how the Iraqi people will ever begin to heal.

Heartbreaking and infuriating.

I need to take news breaks now and then, because if the depressing events themselves don't get me, the media focus on fluff does.

9:04 PM  
Blogger Grim Reality Girl said...

Kevin, I too have seen this video before before but appreciate the reminder. I can not imagine what it must be like. Thanks for supporting the troops and reminding us....

9:13 PM  
Blogger Whit said...

Really puts things in perspective doesn't it?

10:05 PM  
Blogger Keshi said...

War is useless, inhumane, a waste of time. But the troops are quite the opposite. They r a very brave and courageous lot.

Great post!
Keshi.

10:39 PM  
Anonymous canarygirl said...

Living in Spain, it's incredible the difference between the news coverage here and the US...We do have a couple of American news channels Fox (can that even be called news?), and CNN...the coverage is completely biased to go along with gov't policy. It's appalling to me how much is left out of what is actually going on in the world. I support and sympathize with the American troops that are serving overseas...I'm sick over the fact the people (both the troops, and innocent civilians) are losing their lives because of some Asshole with a capital A's war on terror. When will it end?

11:45 PM  
Blogger Kelly said...

There are some photos that serve just as an honest kick in the gut, serving to hopefully awaken the masses. Unfortunately, I think those who are awake, are already so, and those who are asleep remain undisturbed in their slumber. It is one of the most maddening things about our culture.

As the mother of a 4-year old, I look at that child collapsed in his father's arms and I just want to scream until my head pops off.

4:38 AM  
Anonymous mia said...

I can't get the video to load but that picture will never leave me. Never.

5:21 AM  
Blogger Andie D. said...

"Love your brothers, hate the war"

I hate this fucking war. There. I said it.

I still fly my flag Memorial Day weekend at 1/2 mast until 12:00 AM on Monday (then at full mast). I will fly my flag today, Flag Day, as well. I teach my children that the men and women in uniform are deserving of our utmost respect and admiration.

But the fucking war? MAKES ME SICK.

7:16 AM  
Blogger Jhianna said...

Thanks for this post. The first picture just breaks my heart.

9:12 AM  
Blogger Caron said...

Sometimes I think that Paris and her posse are on the government's payroll. Their purpose? To distract us from the war.

I have a project that I'm working on to honor those who have died in the war. If any one wants to help, come on over!

9:24 AM  
Anonymous wordgirl said...

Amen, brother! There was a local guy here killed only a few weeks ago in Iraq. He was a very young man and the new dad of an infant son. His request was that, if he was killed, he wanted Bush to attend his funeral so that he would see firsthand and without flinching what the consequences of this war are for our friends and families. Do you think he had the balls to show up? Hell no! Now I feel crappy for having posted such a snarky entry today. Mindless fluff.

9:42 AM  
Blogger Open Grove Claudia said...

Diana DeGette, my representative in the House, wrote me (yeah right we buds, I'm on a list) an email yesterday about how Bush sucks. And I responded.

I said that I felt helpless and hopeless and that there was nothing, not one God Damn thing I can do about any of this. My hands and feet are bound by the razor wire of my own helplessness.

Yet my heart knows that a thought is a prayer, love heals everything and that at the end of the day, we live in the peace that fills our heart.

I wish to release you from your razor wire handcuffs, Kevin and let peace fill your heart.

Love is enough.

5:01 PM  
Blogger Mommy off the Record said...

This is so horrifying, I don't even know what to say.

I hate this war. I hate that my tax dollars are going to support it.

6:01 PM  
Blogger mollymcmo said...

that video moved me to tears, despite being drugged from that cheap wine you served me.

that was an awesome video.
thanks for posting that, puts things in perspective.

m

7:09 AM  
Blogger JennyJinx said...

Kevin, I love you for posting both the video and the picture.

Baby is turning 3 tomorrow and I looked at that little boy and wanted to scream. I originally thought him dead, but followed all the links and saw that he was being held prisoner. I don't blame the soldiers. It's the damned administration.

The video just gave me goosebumps. It was lovely. And even though I'm cynical and cold most times, it certainly did touch me deeply.

7:42 AM  

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